Aita for explaining to my daughter why her milestones.

I (40 female) and my husband (42) have a daughter (9). She was adopted when she was born by myself and my husband and she knows she’s adopted. Her biological mom was a very sweet 17 year old girl who wanted to give her the best life she could. I don’t know if her father knows she was ever born. (There was no drug issues or anything like that.)But for her it’s definitely a struggle and not how she’s wired or sees things. But for me it’s like nothings just mine to have - like all my things and milestones and parts of my life are never fully my own. Which is also a lot of my own problems too but this incompatibility doesn’t help and exacerbated things.She asked me why her mom wouldn't do the same for her and I was so angry that I told her that her mom is a terrible mom and she can't expect more from her but I will always be there for her. Apparently she called her mom and called her a bunch of names and told her what I said about her. Her mom called me screaming for saying that to our ...This is the one: You didn't want her. She is the reason her parents divorced. Sibling rivalry with the baby the parents planned and wanted. One of these would cause a teenager a lot of upset, I would say you've caused some irreversible damage to your relationship with your daughter.

Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: AITA for being upset that we can't see Dave for christmas after missing so many milestones in Sara's life, and going no contact.

See our ~~*Best Of*~~ "Most Controversial" at /r/AITAFiltered! UPDATE) AITA for telling my parents they don’t have a daughter. 2. Me and my sibling are still with my granny She said she is happy to take care for us and that she loves having her …The issues is my daughter isn’t graduating. She lied to everyone for at least 4 months. She failed a class she need to graduate last semester and didn’t inform anyone. She told us this yesterday, the party is in about a month, everything has been paid for already. So I informed her she needs to call all her relatives and explain the situation.

I told my daughter that her dad don’t want to see her and showed her the texts he has been writing because she did not believe me. 2. This might make me an asshole because it really hurt my daughter and her dad says that I have now ruined their relationship among other things. Help keep the sub engaging!AITA for telling my daughter I couldn’t have known my parenting style would cause mental issues and say its partly her personality? Me (62) and my oldest daughter (f28) always have had a rough relationship. I had ptsd after fleeing my home country and looking back I might’ve also have had postpartum depression after she was born.escapepodsbybob. ADMIN MOD. AITA for telling my daughter she caused her own problems? Not the A-hole. My (m) wife (f) and I are both 48 with two daughters, Liz (30) and Ash (24). I’m not sure where to start with this so I’m just going to jump right into it. Liz use to date a young man named Pat.Birthdays are a special occasion to celebrate the milestones and growth of our loved ones. When it comes to your grown-up daughter, finding the right words to express your love and...I call making content “creating content” and not “doing work” or “going to work” because Jaz would cry, thinking I was taking her back to daycare, for background. Last week, I was FaceTiming a friend (Chloe, 30F) and I realized it was almost time for me to start creating content. I told Jaz, “Hey baby.

My (39f) daughter very recently had her 17th birthday. My husband (42m) and I told her to pick out a restaurant that she'd like us to take her to for her birthday. She chose a seafood restaurant that we'd never been to. In looking over the menu I saw that the vast majority of the dishes contained shellfish.

Originally posted to r/AmItheAsshole. AITA for not telling my father and stepmother about my son's birth? Trigger Warnings: emotional abuse, verbal abuse, possible parental alienation, infantilizing behaviors. Original Post - Nov 7, 2023. My (26F) father (59M) has been dating "Paula" (38F) for 4 years.

Your poor daughter. At least you showed her hot little you love her. Can’t wait for the “AITH - my daughter is getting married and wants nothing to do with me because I chose my GF OF A FEW MONTHS OLD DAUGHTER over my own flesh and blood” YTA. And not a father. You’re just a sleek donor.My daughter has experienced first grade from her bedroom, connected to an iPad, under a mountain of books and papers she was assigned to complete. Most days, she and I... Edit Your...The issues is my daughter isn’t graduating. She lied to everyone for at least 4 months. She failed a class she need to graduate last semester and didn’t inform anyone. She told us this yesterday, the party is in about a month, everything has been paid for already. So I informed her she needs to call all her relatives and explain the situation.My (39f) daughter very recently had her 17th birthday. My husband (42m) and I told her to pick out a restaurant that she'd like us to take her to for her birthday. She chose a seafood restaurant that we'd never been to. In looking over the menu I saw that the vast majority of the dishes contained shellfish.I do love my daughter deeply but to this day I still have problems coming to terms with being a father, and envying my life before. I see my daughter mostly just on Christmas and her birthday. I’m not a very involved parent, in my defense I live an hour and a half away and work 6 days a week. When my daughter was 5 she was diagnosed with cancer.

Asshole. I live in a building where pets are strictly verboten, you can’t have one even if you own the apartment. Last week, I was leaving the building with my 6 year old and another resident was coming down the stairs with some tiny dog in her tote bag. My daughter started fussing as I’ve told her it’s not me against us getting a dog but ...Boy why did I say that. My daughter ran downstairs crying, face beet red 10 minutes after my conversation with her dad, calling me terrible and accusing me of not wanting her to spend time with her dad. I told her that’s not the case and she demanded to know why I couldn’t take her, I couldn’t give her an answer and she ran upstairs crying.not making my daughter apologize. 2) my daughter was pretty direct. Help keep the sub engaging! Don’t downvote assholes! Do upvote interesting posts! Click Here For Our Rules and Click Here For Our FAQ. Subreddit Announcements. Follow the link above to learn moreMy kids make me a card and I’m happy as can be. A better way to do this may be to see if she remembers her brother’s birthday and if she doesn’t, you could remind her in time. You need to give your kids training/coaching for things not just hope they’ll do it on their own. 1.My daughter woke up at 8 yesterday and when she first came to the breakfast table, my son and I were waiting. We pounced and we each grabbed a slice of chocolate cake and smeared it onto her face and I yelled happy birthday. My wife came to our daughter’s rescue and started yelling at me all the while my daughter was just dumbfounded and ...In a similar vein—my older daughter is 5 and is adopted, something she has always known about. A year ago, she asked why I was her mommy instead of her birthmom. I explained that Birthmom didn’t have any money to take care of a baby or a good place to live, and it was important to her that [Little Luna] had those things.

When my wife came home, Madison was able to explain what happened before me and had her believe whatever story she had made up. My wife sat me down later that night and told me that I was too harsh on her and that things like this come with time, and that I should actually put up Madison's achievements along with her siblings.My (39f) daughter very recently had her 17th birthday. My husband (42m) and I told her to pick out a restaurant that she'd like us to take her to for her birthday. She chose a seafood restaurant that we'd never been to. In looking over the menu I saw that the vast majority of the dishes contained shellfish.

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OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I refuse to stay home with my step daughter's baby so she can go work. 2) Step daughter does not trust daycare or nannies. She will be confined to home all day with baby for atleast 3 years and lose her job. Help keep the sub engaging!

My (39f) daughter very recently had her 17th birthday. My husband (42m) and I told her to pick out a restaurant that she'd like us to take her to for her birthday. She chose a seafood restaurant that we'd never been to. In looking over the menu I saw that the vast majority of the dishes contained shellfish.Because my daughter also has some of those same challenges with executive function, so I want to explain that difference respectfully. But I also want to maintain the expectation that she NOT do stuff like that herself (her support needs are lower, so that is a reasonable expectation for her).So last week, me, my wife and 2 kids went out to the zoo for my daughters 23rd birthday. We were having a great time. While leaving an enclosure some woman sort of cut us off and pushed in front of us to get out first. She didn’t actually touch us, and it wasn’t that big a deal but was a little obnoxious, and I said “there’s no need to ... My oldest is 25, that I had with a high school ex. Then we separated, and I married my husband much later. My younger two are 9, and 7. My younger children believe in Santa, while my daughters son doesn’t. She raised him not with the Santa magic, which is perfectly okay I just rather not have it ruined for my children who do believe in Santa. The principal wanted my daughter to give an apology to her. I told them no and that we are leaving. This started the mom telling me her daughter needs an apology. I told her that her kid is a brat and she should learn how to behave in class. That if she wasnt annoying as all hell my daughter wouldn’t have snapped after 5 months.AITA for 'forcing' my daughter to parent? i [45f] am a wife to [45m] and mother to five boys and two step sons. i also have one daughter. ever since my oldest son [29m] and his wife [20f] moved in a couple of months ago my daughter [15f] has been very troublesome and seems to have a problem with everything. for example when my daughter in law ...The reason of my divorce was due to multiple cheating that happened through our marriage during work trips and out of them 2. In our divorce I didn’t fight for anything as I just wanted our daughter to see how a healthy relationship should be between her father and I not once argued Infront of her. We divorce when she was just 2 years old ...I just saw this one in the wild and left a judgment (I don't often go directly to AITA, but it showed up in my feed). I wanted to crosspost it but saw it was already here. This woman's priorities are completely bonkers, not even the apparent Golden Child understands her thought process (because it's bonkers). ErrantJune.Welcome to our Favourite Stories YouTube channel! Join us as we delve into captivating narratives, intriguing questions, and thought-provoking commentary. St...I heard her teacher address a girl named Kelly a few times, which stuck out to me because my daughter’s class is only about 15 kids and I know them all by this point in the year. A couple times more and I realized she was calling my daughter Kelly. My daughter’s name is Keeley, pronounced Kee-Lee. So after school was over I asked her if ...

I was suicidal at the time and they all knew it. What a bitch. Through ALL of this I was forced to see her every damn time she came. My mom loved her cause "that's my sister" despite, you know, me being her daughter. My grandma was similar because she says "you don't abandon family," even when they abuse other family apparently.Your line “I’m giving my second daughter the father my first didn’t have”. Dude seriously your FIRST STILL NEEDS A FATHER she NEEDED a father when her mom died. This is a woman who has never actually had your attention and love at all. Let me break this down for you - from her POV. You abandoned her for the first 10 years of her life.She just told me I have been there for many of her milestones and she wants her father to experience some too. Things got heated and we argued. The night before her graduation, I pleaded with her but she ignored me when I spoke.Instagram:https://instagram. erie pa weather monthlyseamless gutter machine for sale usedfrontier flight 655jiffy lube keystone I-15 male have a mom 36 female who when I was younger would constantly explode on me explaining why exactly she hated certain things I did and why it was so bad that I did them and blah blah blah blah blah blah and she would also yell at me in those rankings for things I didn't even do regardless of whether or not I was speaking even if I was ... endearments in spanishmarshalls central islip The owners recently sold it and the new ones are moving in, so my daughter and her husband have to move. The problem is rents have gone up dramatically. The rent they are paying is $1100 (for a 1 bedroom), which I thought was a lot, but now that I'm trying to help them find a place, most are now going for around $2000 a month or more!JacquesBN. AITA for not giving my daughter her education fund money? Asshole. I (54M) have two children (23F and 21M) with my wife (52F). When the kids were young, my parents set up education funds for both of them, which was very generous of them. My wife and I always expected our kids to attend college and then graduate school, as we have ... swift code chase bank los angeles AITA for “forcing” my daughter to interact with her aunt : r/AmItheAsshole. Go to AmItheAsshole. r/AmItheAsshole. r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have ...It's been a few months since I initially posted, so here's an update on how my life's going. First, I no longer feel bad about making my dad leave the meet-up - since he somehow reconciled with both my mom and sister. Here's how it happened. In mid April, he came to our house to see my sister on her birthday. He bought a ton of gifts and said a ...